I had a intimate relationship with a girl for two YEARS(friend with benefit kinda) when i studied in thailand .Now after five yearrs i found out that shes gonna be my sista in law, .I am really confused over here COZ we shared same bed for two yrs and our ways got seprated and how could she marry mah bro knowingly i am his bro. Is she really in love with him? if yes how should i accept her as my sista in law or should i talk to my bro or with her abt my sitation. My bro and i have really good relationship but i found out he is in deep lop with her.Well my bro called me today from hes gonna marry her next summer.Good lord

God guys i am not jealous, i am not calling her whore or i am totally over her But then sister in law is like mother how could you accept her as my mom.and its not komalikaa and let me not mention her over here.I am trying my best to let her know abt this thread going on . HOPEFULLY IN CPL OF DAYS she would know abt it . On the other hand i should think i should just let the proccedings go as they know each other for cpl of yrs now. and why the hell my past be evil here. I know what r u guys suggesting me but then she is not normal person believe me. Based on ur emotions,experience,knowledge,pihilosophy and so on JUST TELL ME should i let them marry or i should tell my bro. I told this story at my work too. female peers told me not to be thorn and male peers suggested me to be frank with my bro before the marraige.My brother decided last week that he gonna marry next summer. He told me all of his love story and stuff. I never knew she was the girl. I isolated myself from everyone for a year to get a good job.

Your fantasy is worth applauding........

Next time, I hope not, I happen to read the "THREESOME "thread here with the respective characters.

Yet, another FANTASY of mine....

This sounds like quite a story, "literatefool" seems to have cooked up. I wonder if any of it is even true?!?! His stories seems to be begging for the same question "SHOULD I TELL MY BROTHER?" even after repeated replies of "Ya you should!" I don't want to be giving any advices here, but I think u should just do what u think is best for your brother, your family and YOURSELF! You should stop accusing your "friend with a benefit" for the given situation at hand. I think it's totally wrong to label her as a "psycho." Reading your thread it makes the reader feel like you're one instead!

Too many skeptics around. But I believe you. Literate fool, you should be straightforward with your brother before the marriage. Girl_interrrupted's assesment to me sounds a tad weak and seems indicate that someone's been watching one too many daytime soap operas. Regardless of jealosy, the fact is he had sex with his potential bhauju. That's gotta be a much more significatn issue than jealosy. I personally dont think jealosy is a big issue here.

Literate fool - you should be honest and straigthforward with your brother. If this marriage goes through, your brother will be closer to your wife in the long run than to you - since she will be the mother of his children. So you need to be a bit careful when you approach this issue both with your brother and with the "potential" wife.

typo * his wife * hehe nice freudian slip there

Just tell him that you banged her.

well, i have seen very similar case in Nepal. there was this guy who loved a girl and had a relationship. I think he did not love her so much thogh. later he found out that that girl got married with his brother ( sani aama ko chhora). It is very embarrasing for him but i dont know about girl.

I would say, since your brother is nice and this is his first love, you should let him know by some way about your relationship with her. May be you can tell his friends, or have your friend talk to him about this and all. let him know. it is important for him to know about this before getting married. if he is fine with it, its ok i guess.

dude u will be lucky again. u can be a part time if ur brother will be out of town. have fun and chill

I want shweeta and nails to write a comment in ur story literatefool coz they got some good ideas...... dude...... hahaha

WElll I hope you are enjoying ur life.. coz life is all about enjoyment dude.. enjoy it ..

don't worry dude.. खुट्टा भए जुत्ता त पैहाल्छ नि ...... so go get another gal for you .. past is past.. forget it...... ehehe........

malai ahile hasoo lageko cha.. I wish I were ur brother literate fool......... HAHAHAH
DUKHYOO KI KE HO LITERATE FOOL ........ TIMI LAI

KYA TARGET MEROO LITERATE FOOL KO HEART MAI KYA MAJJA LE ARROW HANNE YAR.. LITERATE I WISH ALL THE FOLKS OUT THERE WERE AT UR HOME.. IN UR BROS.. MARRIAGE..

i WISH i COULD SEE UR BRO'S MARRIAGE AND i WOULD WISH THEM A LONG AND HAPPY MARRIED LIFE.......

Dude how can you see a girl in your brother's bed, when you had fu(ked that same B*t*h. It will be so embarasing for you. By the way how many times you'd fu(ked her, hehehe(personal question, but didn't try to offend you). Tell your brother the whole story, let his decide the whole situation.

I EXACTLY HAD THE SAME PROBLEM AND I BELIEVE I STILL DO. MY BROTHER IS ALSO DATING A GIRL WHO I SLEP WITH COUPLE OF YEARS; AND WHEN I DUMPED HER, SHE STARTED TO SLEEP WITH MY BROTHER. I TOLD MY BROTHER ABT THIS; HE DIDNT BELIEVE IT AND THEY CONTINUED AND STILL ARE, I GUESS. NOBODY KNOWS WHAT GIRLS REALLY WANT. I WOULD SUGGEST TO GO AND TALK TO UR BROTHER ATLEAST. I THINK HE DESERVES TO KNOW THE TRUTH AS HE IS UR BROTHER AND I AM SURE U WILL TELL IF U CARE ABT HIM.

के हो जए हिन्दु कथालाइ अर्को मोड मा लिएर जान लाग्यौ नि त?

तिमि लाइ त म के भन्न सक्छु भने यदि तिम्रो दाजु ले तिम्रो कुरा सुन्दैनन् भने छोडि देउ समस्या सामाधान। केटि भनेको बिश्रको जनसंख्या को आधा हिस्सा , अरु सबैले पाएका छन तिमि नडराउ तिमि कुमार बास्नु पर्दैन यो जुनि मा ।


माथि को साथि लाइ म गिरिजा वा गिरिजा को कुनै नातादार होइन तर गिरिजा हुर्केको र म हुर्केको को देश चाँहि एउटै हो, त्यसैका करण बाट तपाइ को रेडियो ले स्टेसन टिप्न गार्हो भएको हो भने म त्यसका लागि क्षमाप्राथि छु।

I don't think your brother should marry her dude. Simply because you two will have one sad life AND one day it'll be obvious to your brother what happened between the two of you. Truth always comes out. If it comes out of your mouth good, her mouth - better. since she's not sayin and you're actin chicken little- the worst could happen- HE WILL FIND OUT.

So go tell him everything. Brothers don't necessarily need to be enemies. She's just another brick in the wall- and she's already loose. Explain that to her. One loose brick can bring down a wall!

TT

letting her know about the thread?? why are you so afraid to even tell her??? if u can't talk to her about it..then for sure u can't tell your brother ... :-S

you already know what you have to do..why ask others?

hey guys,

I had a long talk with my bro yesterday.........we started talking abt cool things in cool pattern like we always do then with all the gutts i finally said' Da dont marry her.....i told him the reality then bichara ko voice soft and queit. Why didnt u tell me before. I said why did u hide abt her with me . I even didnt know you were serious with her and plus mom and dad knows abt her i dont . what the heck brother. He told me they have been seeing each other for 2yrs and he finally proposed her for marraige 2 months ago. She told my brother that we were just class friend back in thailand nothing more.Bottom line my brother told me give a day or two think abt it coz i am really into her ."Shes my life but y god y out of the blue u got involved u my bhai." I went speechless and he hung up on me. AND LATEST UPDATE that girl mailed me she will call me tonite........JEEZ whats going on?

don't worry about it so much.. you have done what you have to do...

just hope things will work out for you and for the best..

when you had intimate relationship with the girl(friend with BENEFIT??? what the hell!!) did you think for once that she would be somebody's wife one day? It seems that you were not planning to marry her. well now, she might be actually in love with your brother..you don't even know that, or do you? don't you think you had to make that thing sure first? You're really a fool man!

I agree with sajhuser!

I personally think you did a good thing by telling your brother about it. I believe in honesty being the best policy. It would have been better if your ex-gf would have been honest with your brother and told him the truth. She was trying to start a relationship with a lie and that does not work and even if it does, it is a big secret that she would have to live with for the rest of her life.

It shouldn't be a big deal to you or anybody if everyone has moved on with their life. Now your brother can decide and if he really loves the girl then I don't think so her past should matter.

Another made up bull. WTF is Sajha these days, Jerry Springer?