I met him 2 yrs ago in my work. He is middle aged man working in government position.Our first meeting was official and he is very responsible officer in his area. After that we have couple of meetings with dinners and lunches with group of our colleagues. They were less formal but not informal. He knows about my family life. He also knows my partner is in abroad. I know he has wonderful family and I have met his teenage daughters too. They are lovely. One week ago, he came to the city with his official visit and I invited him for dinner in one indian restaurant as a friend. He told me his work and his life and family. Then I told him I am visiting his city for some of my work . He invited me for dinner. As soon as I landed in his city, I called him. Because I have no friend at that time and we went to dinner. During dinner, he told me that me he was waiting for my arrival eventhough he has to travel in some other province for his office meeting in the afternoon. I asked him why he waited for me? He replied he didn't want to break his promise. He also told me he rejected one dinner by his friend due to me. Everything went well and finally we parted. He dropped me to my hotel. Next day, I got too bg with my work and returned my room at 9 pm and my phone has two recorded messages from him. First was silence, second he left his no. to call him back. At 9.30 pm he called me and asked where I went and did during that day. I explained him everything. He asked whether I slept well last nite. I said yes. He said he couldn't sleep in the car while traveling to other city and kept on thinking of me. I just took everything simply and told him I have to go to bed early as I have other work to do next day. He asked me about my plan for next day. I explained everything. Next day, he didn't call me and I was too late when I reached my room. Almost midnite, I was happy he didn't call me that day. I don't want him to be serious with me. We are just frens nothing more. But, he called me at 7 am in the morning when I was still in my sleep and I told him to call me after half an hour. He asked me where I was last nite when he called me 5 times at 11.30 pm but didn;t left message. I told him I was out with my fren. After half an hour, he again called me and said he saw me in his dream and suddenly I disappeared. He cried in the dream for not seeing me and searched every room of his place. I laughed at his dream saying it could be due to he called me last nite and he didn't get me online. He said he fell down from his stairs in the dream. Then, I realize he fell in love actually. I didn't say anything but he said he wants to see me again and go around the city. He also wanted to visit pagoda with me. He wished to visit me in my city if he had helicopeter. He was really seem natural but his calling me many times and telling his dream put me in confusion. Is he in love with me? Is that my mistake to go out to dinner with him 2 times????? I have already left his city and I am quite faraway from him. But I am afraid when I have to b there next time, how would he react to me? I don't want to get into personnal relationship with him. He seems really serious now. Is he really in love????????

hya bekarko kura, dinner dinner dinner dinner everytime dinner and love.....go to hell u wife of husband.

i would call him and let him know that i am just your friend. i have family, committed and have children. People fall in love. its not his fault and yours either. be frank and tell him everything,if you are not interested and committed to your husband and children.
good luck friend
jayamtadi

who said I have children too? U seem too opinionated
anyway thanks

Who said I am wife of husband??? I have a partner. That's all.

urfrenrites, you already got the best answer from balai_bhayenani. Watch and listen to that song few times, if you don't get it once. Or find the lyrics if you still don't understand it. There is no more wondering and pondering on that. A middle-aged man wants to try something new, INTERRACIAL, especially with someone that claims to be HOT and SEXY and is rather easy going. Ask yourself the question: Should I get laid with him, since it has been a while that I have not been around with my guy OR Should I carry on with my life bypassing such Extramarital Wannabe Seekers. There is no point in asking people about what you should do. Also, please don't call that a 'LOVE', I hope you are not a teenager.

Thanks for your suggestion

What the hell... life is to enjoy... get laid.. make him happy and maybe u'll be happy too ... he he he.... maybe this is ur true love... who knows... u won't know unless u try.

i believe, you or anyone of us cant answer on behalf of him. ask yourself , are you in love with him?? .. and i think that matters rather to you!

why don't u go and ask him ? he is gonna hey baby i love u

you would be huh i love u too but ... but what he is gonna say is baby forget but, come with me lets go for drive

u will say honey i am little sad today, he would be why honey whats the matter ( no matter he know he just wanna fu(k 1 time and discover that body, if he likes his finding he will fu(k u twice)

u would be darling don't worry i am fine where we going

baby this is america we can go anywhere ?

honey i wanna go to ratnapark and eat badam

ok baby

lets go

u 2 kiss each other and u both will be thinking we will be fu(cking today again

FYI, thopa

I don wanna f**k any aire gaire dear. It's not that simple. thanks

Do keep update us how many more old fart you go out for dinner and ............


aastu

why don't you all suggest her as if she was your best friend, who desperately needed some good advice? I am sure none of you would encourage your friend to cheat on her partner.
Some girls are nice to everyone; unlike guys, who are just nice to those they care about. (excuse my generalization) . he might have misinterpreted your niceness…or something. Next time he wants to know where you had been all day, just remind him that you are not his teenage daughter and that you don’t have to tell him about everything you do. Oh yeah! and make sure he knows how you feel about him.

urfrienrites.....im not sure if this thread's over.

But assuming you have a husband. it'd be unethical for him and you to get into a relationship. think of the consequences to you and to your conscience.

If you are in a relationship, and provided it's stable and good, it's still unethical.

If your guy's undeserving, and he's married and has kid. it's still unethical for him and to you to let his wife and kids down.

So yeah, looks like he's in love. But screw it. lowe garne pani thaun samaya ra reason huncha. this dude's maniac.

So yeah, my conclusion is, not good.

urfrenrites
Looks like this man is going through mid-life crisis and looking for intimate fun somewhere else....by the way how many affiars is he having (that you might be unaware of) ?

Thanks for responses,

I am just wondering can a middle age man really fall in love? If yes, how can he manage?

He stopped bothering me. I am sure he forgot me and busy flirting with someone else. That is man's character, right?