I met him 2 yrs ago in my work. He is middle aged man working in government position.Our first meeting was official and he is very responsible officer in his area. After that we have couple of meetings with dinners and lunches with group of our colleagues. They were less formal but not informal. He knows about my family life. He also knows my partner is in abroad. I know he has wonderful family and I have met his teenage daughters too. They are lovely. One week ago, he came to the city with his official visit and I invited him for dinner in one indian restaurant as a friend. He told me his work and his life and family. Then I told him I am visiting his city for some of my work . He invited me for dinner. As soon as I landed in his city, I called him. Because I have no friend at that time and we went to dinner. During dinner, he told me that me he was waiting for my arrival eventhough he has to travel in some other province for his office meeting in the afternoon. I asked him why he waited for me? He replied he didn't want to break his promise. He also told me he rejected one dinner by his friend due to me. Everything went well and finally we parted. He dropped me to my hotel. Next day, I got too bg with my work and returned my room at 9 pm and my phone has two recorded messages from him. First was silence, second he left his no. to call him back. At 9.30 pm he called me and asked where I went and did during that day. I explained him everything. He asked whether I slept well last nite. I said yes. He said he couldn't sleep in the car while traveling to other city and kept on thinking of me. I just took everything simply and told him I have to go to bed early as I have other work to do next day. He asked me about my plan for next day. I explained everything. Next day, he didn't call me and I was too late when I reached my room. Almost midnite, I was happy he didn't call me that day. I don't want him to be serious with me. We are just frens nothing more. But, he called me at 7 am in the morning when I was still in my sleep and I told him to call me after half an hour. He asked me where I was last nite when he called me 5 times at 11.30 pm but didn;t left message. I told him I was out with my fren. After half an hour, he again called me and said he saw me in his dream and suddenly I disappeared. He cried in the dream for not seeing me and searched every room of his place. I laughed at his dream saying it could be due to he called me last nite and he didn't get me online. He said he fell down from his stairs in the dream. Then, I realize he fell in love actually. I didn't say anything but he said he wants to see me again and go around the city. He also wanted to visit pagoda with me. He wished to visit me in my city if he had helicopeter. He was really seem natural but his calling me many times and telling his dream put me in confusion. Is he in love with me? Is that my mistake to go out to dinner with him 2 times????? I have already left his city and I am quite faraway from him. But I am afraid when I have to b there next time, how would he react to me? I don't want to get into personnal relationship with him. He seems really serious now. Is he really in love????????

Since he saw your face in his dream, which means either he is in true love or he is attracted sexually with you. According to biochemistry, hormones releases when opposite sex meet with each other and that hormones shows its effect for a long time and what biochmist called is 'the effect of mirror neurons'. So don't worry about it, because that neuron will stop thinking about you after certain time.

Thank u for explaination. I am little bit nervous to see him again.hope everything will be ok next time

Looks like u both r mature enough to talk over this matter.U might have led him believe that u r interested too by your action,behaviour whatever.So,when u meet him next time instead of getting nervous ,be clear to him,tell him what u expect in this relationship. Don't just give him any hope by not saying anything .It might be worse if u guys just continue doing this with clouds in your mind.Just be clear to each other,and enjoy your good friendship.If he wants more than friendship and u don't just explain that to him.If he keeps bugging u even then, drop that friendship.Grow up.act mature .u r not a teenager!

u should know guys are stupid. they think anything you do is cause you like them

Well screw up your family and his too..you met him for day,,he saw u in his dream,,wooow,,wonderful life,,love has no bounds,,

No! he just has crush on you...and there is no age bar for that feeling..it comes and goes. i read somewhere that people can develop that sort of feeling even at old age...Just be glad that someone admires you :)

Hey make the best use of the opportunity that your partner is abroad..Go for it gal,,I am sure you would not get this kind of opportunity once u are old and your skin starts getting wrinkled..so go for it,,

urfrenrites, I think the latest hindi film Kabhi albida na kahena encourage people to do this kind of action. But choice is yours, family or barbadi................

Hey i've got a good idea,,next time he "confesses" his dreams to you,,make sure you have a voice recorder ready and get everything recorded..so that you can play it to his "wonderful family and teenage daugthers"..and everyone can have a good show,,his face turning blue and black,,try it,,budheshkaal ko jawani,,haayyee,,

no.. he doesn't.. in fact, you already know what he wants...

ok fine then u can accept his luv only in his dream then not in real life .

thanks for ur suggestion,
but he is not my type.

I felt guilty because I was too nice to him that made him carried away to such a stupid dream,

If he's married. and acts like he's in love with you. He's not.

He just wants some action if you know what I mean. Not a good character.

I'd stay away.

TT

thanks TT,

He also asked whether I want to marry again or not?

dont give a piece of shit yar ! he's totally BULLSHIT !

If I were u,I'd have stayed away from such kind of character coz don't want to cheat on my hubby dear.But u r not me.And looks like u r leading this guy into all this.This guy is not a nice guy coz he's cheating his wife!Bastard! And looks like u r the same!!

Yeah!!!! too many freaks out there looking for booty... and the way they think they can get is by being so "cry-baby" like.. whining... crying.. dreaming.. and pretending to fall in love and shit like that... STAY AWAY from those freaks.

thanks for comments

but no judgement plzzzzzzzzzz If I am hot and attractive it's not my fault